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Chapter One

Carly

I was eight when my parents separated, and nine when they actually divorced. That means that for a little more than a decade, I've watched my mom get ready for dates. Sometimes, until I started ninth grade, I'd even keep her company on Saturday afternoons, while she'd take these long, luxurious bubble baths. I'd put the lid down on the toilet and sit there, and we'd talk about school or boys or the guy she was dating.

I stopped joining her in the bathroom in ninth grade for a lot of reasons, but mostly because it had started to seem a little weird to me to be hanging out with her when I was fourteen and she was naked.

But she has always been pretty cool about bodies and sex, and for all I know, she wouldn't mind my joining her in the bathroom even now when I'm home from college. For better or worse--and usually for better--my mom has always been very comfortable with subjects that give most parents the shivers. A couple of days before my fifteenth birthday, she took me to the gynecologist to get me fitted for a diaphragm, and told me where in her bedroom she kept the spermicidally lubricated condoms. (Of course, I already knew: God, by then I even knew where she'd hidden a vibrator.)

I hadn't had sex yet, and my mom made it clear that she didn't want me to in the foreseeable future. But she had a pretty good memory of the hormonal chaos that hits a person in high school, and she wanted to do all that she could for my sake to ensure that she wouldn't become a grandmother any sooner than necessary.

When I think back on it, my parents' divorce was very civilized. At least it has always seemed that way to me, though it's clear there are things I don't know.

The way my mom tells it, I was in second or third grade when they realized they just didn't love each other anymore the way they had when they were first married. They'd worked together at the radio station then, and they'd shared everything. My mom insists they both came to the realization at about the same time that they should separate: My mom was thirty-two and my dad was thirty-three, and they figured they were still young enough to hook up with someone who, in the long years ahead, could keep their motors humming the way they were meant to.

Sometimes my dad hints that it wasn't quite so mutual. Most of the time he toes their party line, but every so often I'll get the impression that when he moved out, he was figuring they'd both change their minds and reconcile in a couple of weeks. I think he might have thought he was just being cool.

Once when he was visiting my mom, I overheard him telling her that he knew her heart had never been into the counseling they went through when I was eight.

Still, he was the one who got remarried.

Sometimes, when I was little, I'd help my mom pick out her jewelry or clothing for a date.

"Wear the pearls," I might suggest.

"It's a clambake," she'd remind me.

"Too formal?"

"And they might scare the oysters."

One time she especially indulged me. I was eleven years old and convinced there was no fashion statement more powerful than a kilt. And so she wore a red-and-green Christmas kilt to a backyard cookout, even though it was the middle of August and the air was just plain sticky. That night my baby-sitter spent most of the time standing in front of a fan, with her T-shirt rolled up like a halter.

If I were to count, I'd guess my mom probably had five serious boyfriends in the decade between my parents' divorce and the day she met Dana. Dana had been in pre-surgical therapy for two years by then and had probably endured close to fifty hours of electrolysis. He'd been on hormone therapy for a good four or five months.

Unlike a lot of pre-op M2Fs, he wasn't trying to pass as a woman yet, he hadn't begun his transition.

Of course, he didn't tell my mom any of this--not that he should have. When they met, he was simply the professor for a film course at the university that she was taking that summer as a lark, and she was one of his students.

What was he supposed to do, say to the class, "Hi, I'm Dana, and I've spent a good part of the last year with my upper lip deadened by Novacaine"?

Or, "Good evening, I'm your professor. I'm about to start developing breasts!"

Or, if he wanted, for some reason, to be completely candid, "You folks ever met a lesbian with a penis? Have now!"

He had no idea he was going to fall in love with my mom, even when they started to date, and she had no idea she was going to fall in love with him. It just happened.

(Continues...)

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Amazon Rating Fascinating and Well-Handled Jan/06/2010

This book on transgendered relationships was very interesting. I really enjoyed it. The plot, however, was a bit predictable, but the characterizations struck me as realistic. And I thought that the rather delicate subject matter was handled well. The detail on the surgery was a little - well, more than a little - graphic, but it was an important part of the story, even if it was not for the squeamish. I think Bohjalian is a very talented writer and I really enjoyed this book!

by Yolanda S. Bean (Chicago, IL)

Amazon Rating Despite some legitimate complaints, I'm going to give this five stars Oct/07/2009

I discovered Trans-Sister Radio, and its author, Chris Bohjalian, entirely by accident after stumbling across this book in a junk store in almost near-perfect condition priced at a dollar. When I saw the cover of the book and read the title, I was sure I'd hate. "Trans-Sister Radio" continues to be one of the worst titles for a book I've ever encountered, even if I understand that the pun has more layers to it than I immediately suspected (at the time, the only apparent one was the obvious "trans" pun, which didn't amuse me, and, in fact, seemed positively juvenile). Aspiring writers, please take note: a decent title can mean the difference between a reader purchasing a book or sitting it back on the shelf. I have no doubt I would not have paid the high retail price for a book that was apparently so inconsequential to the novelist that he used a sophomoric pun as a title. "TRANS-Sister Radio;" ha-ha-ha. Anyhow, the title struck me first, and probably colored my perception of the cover art, which is a strange photo of a nude woman's feet. She's holding a flower in-between two of her toes, and you can tell she is nude because her feet are covering her out-of-focus butt. Or is that someone else's butt her feet are somehow propped up on? No matter. The whole thing struck me as fetishistic. I had no doubt that the book was nothing short of sensationalist smut meant to smear transsexuals, but since the book was in such fine shape and was only a dollar, I figured I'd buy it and sell it.

Well, earlier this week, I unpacked a box I hadn't touched in awhile and discovered that I'd not sold this. Having nothing else to read, and spurred by the kind of morbid curiosity that leads me to watch Jerry Springer, I decided to crack open the book and see how long I could last.

Well, color me shocked. This is definitely one book that you shouldn't judge by its cover.

The entire book is centered around the gender-transition of Professor Dana Stevens, and it manages to be simultaneously character-oriented, focused, AND suspenseful. The book is structured around four alternating viewpoints, and the author manipulates this device alongside others (several small instances of effective non-chronological storytelling, for instance) to build suspense. I do not know if Mr. Bohjalian has any experience in writing magazine serials, but he is also excellent at creating non-artificial cliffhangers (usually through some bit of foreshadowing, and all of the events in this novel are being related to us from some future point in time by all of the characters, I presume). It has been a long time since I've felt the bleary-eyed joy of having read a book for seven hours and continuing to say to myself "just one more chapter, and that's it," as it it were a mantra, knowing I'd read to the end of the section (the novel is organized into five sections), and sometimes beyond, even as I would have to fight an onslaught of sleepiness in order to do so. I read at a very deliberate pace and will often linger on individual words, sentences, or passages for long periods of time when I find something to be well-written or thought-provoking before I continue (I feel speed-reading to be an absolute crime when one is dealing with quality literature). Most 300-400 page novels that I only find moderately interesting will take a month for me to read, as I'll read in small bursts before going on to something more interesting. It was this quality of mine which lead me to spend a week reading this, rather than one or two days. Needless to say, it takes a very engaging novel for me to read in seven-to-nine hour bursts. This book has reawakened some of the joy I felt when reading Dostoyevsky, or Salinger: the joy of reading about interesting people. This is not to say that there aren't any number of clever plot-based novels that I have enjoyed immensely, but I find it is only a good character-driven novel which can engage and hypnotize me so.

The characters all have very distinct personalities and voices, and most of the relationships are handled expertly. The dynamic between Allison and Dana is especially well-done (although I am unsure how cissexuals who have never entered a relationship with a transsexual will react to it: I can see it as potentially baffling to them). The character psychology is honest, especially when it comes to Dana. I think a lot of his research was probably on the mentalities of transwomen regarding their predicament, because Dana rings VERY true-to-life.

One aspect of the novel I enjoyed was the seeming benevolence of the author himself. The whole book is colored by a sunny optimism, even when things become rough for the characters. There is pain and loss here, but is always seems as if it is being viewed from some higher plain. You never get the sense that any character is beyond salvation, and even the most vicious bigots seem to be viewed with a sympathetic, if sad, smile. It is hard to describe, but the impression of the book I get is that it is, on a very fundamental level, life-affirming.

I do have some caveats about it aside from the title. Even though the author did some excellent research on this novel, there are a few points of Dana's transition that concern me. One that stuck out is that Dana never seems to attend any sort of therapy. Professional therapy, I mean. She attends a support group for awhile, but no therapist of any sort is ever mentioned. It is very possible for a transwoman to find her hormones from black market sources, but she seems to be legally transitioning from all the other details we're allowed. Who wrote her recommendation letters for Gender Reassignment Surgery? She didn't go to some unsanitary chop-shop in Bangkok, after all. There is no way a legitimate surgeon who is experienced in this sort of thing would proceed without the proper documentation required by the standards of care. Another bit that comes off as incredible is how she manages to spend only three weeks on the Real Life Experience. Why was she even doing the RLE if she didn't have a therapist?

I also have some problems with the way certain storylines end. Without revealing too much, there's a problem with a lack of closure for a major character near the end of the book. Also, a prominent secondary character just drops out 3/4 of the way through without much explanation. I don't like the way the author treats some of the characters who drop out of frame.

Normally, this would make me drop a star, but two things keep me from doing this:

The emotional honesty of Dana's character. No other piece of fiction I've encountered has so well explored the psychology of the transsexual.

and

The sheer engagingness of it. This has taught me to love reading fiction all over again.

For these two things, it gets five stars.
I am definitely going to read his other novels now.

by M. Richardson (TN)

Amazon Rating Makes you explore your own beliefs Feb/28/2009

I read this book for my local book group. The story is told from the perspective of four individuals; Dana, Allison, Carly, and Will. Interspersed throughout the story are transcripts from a radio talk show interview between Carly and other characters within the book.

The book begins with Carly explaining the impact of her parent's (Allison and Will) divorce. Will remarried but was often accused of holding a torch for Allison. Allison was a grade school teacher and was taking courses at the local college; Dana was her professor. Dana, an attractive yet effeminate man, quickly caught Allison's attention and they quickly entered into a relationship.

A few months into their relationship, Dana reveals to Allison that he was born into the wrong body and is contemplating gender reassignment surgery. Though overwhelmed by this shocking news, Allison's love for Dana has grown beyond her rational control and she vows to remain by his side throughout his journey to become who he truly wants to be. The rest of the book centers around the perceptions of others and the struggles and complications the couple must face due to societal beliefs and prejudices.

This book was well-written, as is the power of this author to transform mere words into a work of art. However, the ending and "revelations" were predictable, which was highly disappointing to me knowing the abilities of the authors writing style. This book explores an extremely controversial topic in a manner that instills a sense of compassion in the reader for the characters within the book.

This story also instigated much conversation between me and my friends. I could not stop thinking about these people and their story. This work of fiction reads as a memoir and poses certain important yet debatable questions. The biggest question of all throughout this account is: can love transcend gender? Before you form your final opinion and answer to this question...read this book. Make sure you have all sides of any story before settling on a position. Enjoy...this is a book that will make you think and question all your previously held beliefs and ideals.

by Mannadonn ()

Amazon Rating How the other half live Jan/13/2009

This was an interesting, sympathetic, insightful look at a "world" that I and perhaps most people) knew very little about prior to picking the book up. The significant differences between people of different cultures, nationalities, religions, lifestyles, etc. only serve to shed light on how ultimately similar we homosapiens all are to each other, most especially in matters of the heart.

by Roy L. Pickering Jr. - Author of PATCHES OF GREY http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0578005816/ref=nosim/porfessionalp4-20 (NJ)

Amazon Rating Fluff Dec/23/2008

A lot of corny emoting and boring conversations. The transsexual subject matter was the most interesting/intriguing part of the book. The characters and plot were borderline anemic. I was frustrated when some of the conversations seemed to go on and on. The town conflict was what kept me reading. I wish it were better.

by Susannah ()

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About the Book

Four people in a small Vermont village are about to have their lives inexorably intertwined by the uncertainties of love...and the apparent absolutes of gender.

Allison Banks, the long-divorced mother of a teenager on the cusp of college, has at last fallen in love. The object of her desire? Dana Stevens, a professor at the nearby university and her instructor for a summer film and literature course. Her daughter watches with pleasure her mother's newfound happiness, but Allison's ex-husband, Will, the president of Vermont Public Radio, is jealous. Still secretly in love with his ex-wife, he finds himself unsettled by the prospect of Allison's attachment to another man.

Yet Dana is unlike anyone Allison has ever been with: attentive, gentle, kind - and an exceptionally ardent lover. Moreover, it's clear that Dana cares just as deeply for Allison. The only stumbling block? Dana has known always that in actuality he is woman and he will soon be having a sex change operation.

At first Allison runs, but overwhelmed by the depth of her passions, she returns. Can the pair's love transcend both the biologic imperatives that are their bodies, as well as their ingrained notions of sexual preference? Moreover, can their love survive the outrage of the small community in which they live?


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