Stones Across the River:

Stones Across the River:

by Phillip Berry


Publisher Cross Stone Press

Published in Business & Investing/Business Culture, Self-Help, Health, Fitness & Dieting, Business & Investing/Management & Leadership, Nonfiction, Business & Money

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Book Description

This book is a roadmap to your best work in your peak years. Phillip Berry guides you through three key areas of your journey: personal development, coping with adversity, and lessons in leadership. The book reflects the author’s entrepreneurial journey while blending elements of the philosophical, spiritual, and pragmatic.

Sample Chapter

Your Peak Years—Your Best Work

Your ultimate goal in life is to become your best self.

Your immediate goal is to get on the path that will lead you there. —David Viscott, MD

What are your “peak” years? The U.S. Office of Personnel Manage- ment suggests that a person with more than ten years of experience is at mid-career. Other sources call mid-career a range of experience from ten to fifteen years. Firstly, a statistical mid-career point may not equate to your peak years. The peak years are when you have enough experience, confidence, connections, perspective, and resources to do your best work. Secondly, to identify our peak years, we have to define our best work.

Your best work equals your potential. When the work you do reflects your potential, you have entered your peak years. This is not a time-based formula, though it typically takes time to reach our best work. Your best work is not limited by gender or age. It is yours and yours alone. The peak is a culmination. An apogee of capability. A point at which your creativity, skill, energy, and aspi- ration bring you into alignment with your possibility. Peak years and best work are unique to the individual.

When the work you do reflects your potential, you have entered your peak years.

Peak years are easy to see for an athlete. Most of us reach the peak of our physical powers at an early age and then experience the slow diminishing of those powers. For the working professional, the inverse is normally true. Our capabilities grow with time. Our powers increase with experience. Our best work is only limited by our imagination, confidence, desire, and effort.

If time and experience move us closer to our best work in our peak years, why do so many of us struggle? We struggle with deci- sions, expectations, adversity, clarity, direction, and fulfillment. Time may give us the opportunity to move toward our best work, but it also sows the seeds of doubt. Experience teaches us about pains and disappointments. It gives us failures and the associated difficulties of picking ourselves up when we’ve fallen. The same thing that enables us to be our best also reminds us of our worst.

Now, at mid-career or beyond, you are asking: “Have I reached my peak? Have I already done my best work?” Those are the wrong ques- tions. The more important question is: “How do I do my best work in what are now my peak years?” The great news is that you have exactly what you need to answer that question. The journey toward your best version continues and it’s happening right now. The path is in front of you, and though the struggles will always be present, your best work is waiting for you if you choose to seek it.

Now, there is one more thing to consider as you orient yourself and step in your next direction. Your best work is measured on a sliding scale. It is not measured by what you’ve done before. It is not measured by what someone else is doing. The measure of your best work is relative to this moment. Moving toward your best work reflects your attitude, effort, and imagination today. Your peak years are happening right now... and your best work is waiting to be realized.

You see, the ultimate measure of your best work is defined by you— just like you determine your peak years. How is this possible? The reality is that we are far too complex to live in only one of our dimensions, and it is gross oversimplification to suggest that we aren’t many things over the course of our lifetimes. Our best work as a basketball player may have occurred at twenty-two, but we have since chosen to do new work. Perhaps our best work as a student happened when we were fifteen; that doesn’t mean we can’t be a better student at fifty-five. The great news is that our best work as a nurse, teacher, parent, artist, or friend might happen at thirty, forty, sixty, or eighty. Only we can decide.

In this sense, you are in your peak years. Always. The joy and satisfaction that comes with doing your best work will change as your expectations and aspirations change. Your best work is not an absolute nor is it a one-time event. Your best work is a collection of ever-expanding experiences and gifts that you give to yourself and the world around you. Whether your best work is behind you or in front of you is a choice. Your choice.


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Phillip Berry

Phillip Berry

author, blogger, business builder, renovator of old buildings, deal maker, board member, coach, husband of 26+ yrs, father of four, student of history

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