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Two Countries...Two Loves

Two Countries...Two Loves

By  Irma Schettini Caiazzo

Publisher  Dorrance Publishing

ISBN  9781480902411

Published in  Biographies & Memoirs/Memoirs, Biographies & Memoirs, Parenting & Families

eBook  Kindle Edition

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Book Description

From the lush landscapes of Puerto Rico to the concrete sidewalks of New York City, the author recounts her years of war and peace, Her character was molded by her mother, grandmothers and teachers, who cared enough to demand dedication and hard work in exchange for success.

Her multi-cultural neighborhood taught her to embrace shared similarities rather than to dwell on perceived differences. Love for family and country led to an era of prosperity.

Born Puerto Rican and American, life taught her to love the two countries with passion

Sample Chapter

No one can choose where to be born, to whom and in what era of history, yet we are all shaped by those accidents of birth. Life is a banquet to be savored and relished, no matter where, no matter when.

I was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico on April 11, 1933, but eight years later on July 17, 1941 destiny brought me to New York City on the Algonquin. It was a gloomy, rainy day. I had no way of knowing that in time I would learn to love two cities, two countries, two cultures. I was born Irma del Carmen Schettini Valladares.

Who could have predicted that I would live through seismic changes, geopolitically, personally and technologically, that determined the person I have become? During my first eight years I relished my life in a paradise, a tropical island where trade winds blew imbued with perfumed fragrances from the flora that covered the small island. North to south lush landscapes changed from tended and manicured grounds to wild forests, from valleys to tall mountains, and from dark red clay to white sand beaches. My landscapes were unsurpassed. My family travelled with me to all the small towns that housed the inhabitants throughout Puerto Rico, which they loved. During my formative years I was immersed in the Latin American lust for life. We visited people from all walks of life, all of whom seemed to treat us like family. "Mi casa es su casa" is not just a quaint cliche: it is a dictate of life. "My home is your home" is a welcome sign throughout Latin Amerca that invites intimacy.

On the island bougainvillea and flamboyan grew lush, as did massive banyan trees, pines and various varieties of fruit trees, which bloomed to form the sweet mangoes, papayas, pineapples, coconuts and bananas that grew pungent and fragrant throughout the island. Flowers grew profusely in every color of the rainbow. The fronds of palm trees seemed to sway with the ever-present trade winds as if the island were alive and breathing. Although Puerto Rico is a tiny rectangle 35 by 100 miles encircled by the Atlantic Ocean and the Caribbean, several million people live in huts and mansions, in cities and in quiet villages, at sea level and in the mountains that split the island in half. No matter how small the town or how large and vibrant the city, my family had friends and relatives to welcome us.

I was born an American citizen, but during my formative years I considered myself a Puerto Rican. I learned English in school, but it was merely a nursery-rhyme English. All over the world schoolchildren are taught a foreign language, which they soon forget unless they speak the language on a regular basis. My first language was Spanish, which I still speak. There are descriptive phrases that cannot be adequately translated. Spanish is expressive and melodic, and it embodies the spirit of the people. It is spoken verbally, but eyes, facial expressions and hands are non-verbal communications that enhance the words. Without these non-verbal skills, Latinos would be mute.

During the eight years that I was fortunate enough to travel about the island and experience it through the eyes of a child, my family drove around narrow, winding roads that criss-crossed the island in a car without air-conditioning, taking in the sights and looking forward to discovering byways not yet explored. Colorful houses clung to the mountains defying gravity. The towns extended down to the edge of a turquoise sea that stretched to eternity. It was a glorious place for anyone to live. Even as a little girl I loved the physical beauty that surrounded me. The warmth of the tropical countryside was a welcome embrace, but its primary wonder was its gregarious residents, who seemed to squeeze the joy out of each day as if it were an orange to be savored down to the last pit.

The sounds of the island were woven into the landscape: music, the barking dogs, the shrill squawking of parrots and other bird species that demand attention like insistent children. In every town hens ran across the country roads followed by their baby chicks. Goats and pigs communicated with each other and considered themselves part of the population. Paso fino horses were ridden by their owners, who appeared to be an extension of the horse like centaurs in greek mythology. Since the gait of a paso fino is so smooth, accomplished riders can hold a glass of water on their heads as they ride without spilling a drop. Many of the horses are part of the legacy of the Spaniards, who brought them to the New World.

As the sun gets close to the horizon and the mist of night begins to envelop the land, the coqui (pronounced "kokee"), a tree frog that is native to Puerto Rico, repeats its own name in every corner. In cities, in mountains, in valleys and on beaches, it is a welcome sign to the population that venerates the tiny animals.

Along with the flora and fauna of the island I also remember clearly many of my early years living across from the Cathedral of San Juan Bautista in the walled city, which is old San Juan. From the balcony of my granparents' apartment, where I lived for most of my formative years, I watched the worshippers who flocked to the cathedral for weddings, christenings and funerals, as well as for daily and Sunday services. I inspected the crowd to distinguish their social position by the clothing they wore to attend church. They were the background scenario of my daily existence. Rich and poor parishioners knelt in prayer every day and night seeking solace and salvation from the Church.

A church service was a primary social and religious activity that adhered to strict rules of behavior and proper attire. Families attended together. During the 1930s women wore hats to match their outfits, as well as lace mantillas in muted colors. Men wore suits and ties as well as Panama Hats, which they removed when they entered the church. The men often wore white linen suits. Although families of modest means also wore their Sunday best, their clothing tended to be simpler and made of cotton. The more affluent women wore linen, silk and crepe dresses, individually tailored to flatter their diverse figures. Women often carried fans made of lace or hand-painted with European scenerey. In church as well as at social gatherings, fans were opened and closed in a rhythmic hum, creating a gentle breeze by cooling air with a subtle flick of a wrist, an acquired skill that seemed to improve with age.

The Catholic Church welcomed parishioners without prejudice, but life was not as kind. The line between poor and affluent was clear and often a mere accident of birth. In every society throughout history, influential citizens have wielded power and received respect because of who they were. Wealth was one of the measures of a man, but family status was not far behind because it opened doors to opportunity. Although success was reported to be equally available to everyone, it was more accessible to those with easy access.

Within the cathedral crucifixes portrayed a bloodied Christ expiating the sins of the world in contrast to the more peaceful and placid crosses in the United States. Parishioners felt the guilt that the pain on those bloody crosses and crowns of thorns communicated. Religion was an integral part of life. Nuns and priests presided over a predominantly Catholic society that attended church as a religious and social obligation : to pray and be seen doing so by the congregation. I preferred the statues and paintings of the Virgin Mary or of the saints, who devoted their lives to improve the condition of the populace. Artists created benevolent images that inspire our goodness, such as the Pieta in St. Peter's in Rome. I believe those images etch positive emotions in our hearts.

In contrast to the white facade of the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist, the patron saint of Puerto Rico, the three or four-story townhouses that lined our street were painted in pastel colors and featured wrought iron balconies in the style popular in Europe, similar to New Orleans. Most of the houses were centuries old, as was the city. Established as a stronghold for the Spaniards to guard their New World empire, Puerto Rico was discovered and colonized by Christopher Columbus in 1493. Spain granted property to those who settled there. The governor was appointed by the royal family: the government was based on European legal precedents.

The houses , built with thick walls to keep out the tropical heat, were almost indestructible. It was not the buildings , however, that filled my heart and mind. It will always be the voices of people who shared love and laughter. It is the expression on their faces, their smiles and the kindness displayed by their eyes when they looked at me that I will remember. I was made to feel special. Puritans repress their emotions. I am not a Puritan, for which I am unapologetically grateful.

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Author Profile

Irma Schettini Caiazzo

Irma Schettini Caiazzo

Irma Schettini Caiazzo was born in San Juan , Puerto Rico where she lived with her parents and paternal grandparents while attending school in the old walled city. At the age of eight she moved with her mother to the west side of New York City, where she attended school at the grammar and high school of the Sacred Heart Manhattanville College. She lived in New York City through WWII, during which her allegiance for her new country was solidified. Her mother, who worked for RKO Radio Pictures took her to see weekly movies that promoted American values, courage and wisdom.As a result English soon became her primary language but her Latin heritage will always be part of who she is.

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